Show Threads Show Posts. Go to Page Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Originally Posted by nograviti. Women still find it easier to date and pick up prospective partners until around 30ish. Originally Posted by Mightyqueen And that's part of the problem. They don't actually want to get to KNOW a woman as a complex human being, or have a relationship where they become close to someone. They want a thing. Now these men are probably surrounded by many women who are attractive enough but maybe not stunning. They might be goodhearted, kind, women with talent and intelligence he knows nothing about because he really has no interest in what type of person a woman actually is. He is looking for a thing that can boost his ego when other men see what he's got, like a fancy car. There doesn't seem to be much depth to any of these guys in the first place. They have no hobbies, no interests, nothing that indicates they have something in their life to share with a woman who might be looking for a man who has the same interests as they do. Originally Posted by RJ I'd up that until about 40 or so for women. I've known of instances of women pushing 50 with multiple children under 18 living at home seemingly a not in-demand demographic having sex with multiple men simultaneously for extended periods of time, plus having male friends on the side who are stuck in the friend zone wanting to have sex with her. I think this is more of an outlier than reality, but often times you'd be surprised at the prospects women can have later in life.
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There's a concept of a "wall" for women, where her advantage. You say the "wall" is around 30ish. Generally speaking, the "wall" is softer than any of us really think. I'd say that women still hold the upper hand until around 40, but who really knows for sure? Originally Posted by Dewdroplet This is just beyond ridiculous to me. Do you really think that no woman has ever been dumped before or had some guy ghost on her? Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth. That's what all the whiner guys here say. The guys who get to know women first, and then say she got more attractive as he discovered her wicked sense of humor, brains, expertise with cars or tech or whatever, etc. No, it's OK if you are blunt, but you are wrong about me having other options. I thought that was pretty clear. I didn't choose him over any other men because there were no other men, short or tall, who expressed interest in me. He was fun. He had a decent job when we met. I suddenly for the first time in my life had a real boyfriend who actually said he loved me--I was 23 years old and no man had ever said that to me before, so of course I was thrilled, and his friends welcomed me into their circle.Would a shorter man who didn't drink have won out over him? Maybe, maybe not, but I will never know because I never had that choice. No shorter man ever came along and looked at me and said, "Gee, I'd like to date her. If someone had given me a chance along the way, I might have gone in a different direction. And of course, it was real life, so it wasn't that simple and I didn't go into the relationship aware that I was marrying an alcoholic. I did not know about alcoholism in my early 20s, because my own parents didn't drink. I met him in a bar because I DID drink It couldn't ever end for him. I thought we would be together forever. I was wrong. Forever was sixteen years. Originally Posted by brantleygilbert. I've gotten to know everybody at my job pretty well and I observe everyone pretty closely.
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It's unbelievable how easy dating is for the women at my job, not one of them particularly decent looking There is one girl, a blonde who is probably 40 lbs overweight with just horrible looking acne. She is a nice person so I can't say anything bad about her character but her intelligence is highly questionable, makes no money because she has no idea what she's doing. She has a tall good looking white boy friend - she was being pursued hard by another decent looking tall white guy with a pretty good job. Another one of my co workers is a very average looking single mom, chain smoker, very annoying voice, very average figure. She's playing dudes at a time, getting dates constantly and being asked out constantly. I think she's sleeping with 3 different guys right now. It just blows my mind The male equivalent of this just doesn't exist. There are no big guys with horrible acne dating good looking tall white women. Has it always been like this? It seems like dating is getting more and more lopsided - male 9s have to settle for female 6s, female 3's think they should be getting male 8s. Why is this? I can kill myself to have a nice looking physique, a perfect complexion, a legit college degree, a K a year job, the latest in fashionable outfits, etc Originally Posted by Atlguy Ok, so lets just say the majority then. I do think the woman controls the majority of dating and relationships, particularly if she is considered attractive. I know attractive is subjective, but you know what I mean. Attractive women have nearly all the power. Hell I get more attention from women around your age than my own age. Women in their 20s are asking for the moon because they're getting hit on by every guy who is 18 to Originally Posted by JBT They'res a middle ground in between going after the office hottie or a women you find physically very unappealing. It wouldn't be fair to her or myself if I tried being with a women who I was unattracted to physically.. Her being cool wouldn't make me magically attracted to her.. You also seem to be assuming that the good looking women will be a bad partner and the average or unattractive women will automatically be a great person who's easy to deal with. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Additional giveaways are planned. Detailed information about all U. Search this Thread Advanced Search. Similar Threads Does being a literal thinker make dating easier and would dating be easier if every one thought more literally?
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User Name. Remember Me. Advanced Search. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with. Search Forums Advanced. Page 53 of Last ». Advertisements Quote: Originally Posted by nograviti Women still find it easier to date and pick up prospective partners until around 30ish. Location: A State of Mind 6, posts, read 3,, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by Mightyqueen And that's part of the problem. Quote: Originally Posted by Mightyqueen No, it's OK if you are blunt, but you are wrong about me having other options. Location: everywhere posts, read , times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by brantleygilbert I've gotten to know everybody at my job pretty well and I observe everyone pretty closely. Location: So Cal 51, posts, read 50,, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by Atlguy39 Ok, so lets just say the majority then. Quote: Originally Posted by brantleygilbert actually I shouldn't be so harsh most women in their late 30s, 40s and 50s can be fairly reasonable in their dating demands - primarily because it's the only time where dating isn't unbelievably one sided. Location: State of Transition , posts, read ,, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by JBT They'res a middle ground in between going after the office hottie or a women you find physically very unappealing. Show Threads Show Posts. Go to Page
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. I've had a little dating experience, slept with a few women but I've consistently been perma-single because of a combination of shyness and lack of confidence when I do approach Anyways, I was approached by a woman in her 40s on Saturday who was absolutely all over me. She paid me a million compliments, invited me back to her place She was actually not bad looking - decent face, decent figure but I still don't really care to see her again because I feel like I should be with somebody who is more attractive - I'm not super attracted to her the way I should be with somebody I would be dating. This is all coming from me, a guy who has had very little dating success in my lifetime. I can only imagine how high the standards are for guys who have had a lot of dating success I guess my point is that women do have it much easier when it comes to casual sex, but that's basically irrelevant to them anyways. When it comes to relationships, quality men are just as picky as quality women are. Men are as picky with the physical stuff as women are picky with the non physical stuff although I care about personality and character too of course. A lot of guys say that women have it super easy in dating because they see them getting white knighted by a bunch of spineless dudes Non qualified dating partners don't really count for either gender. I still think women have it much easier than men in the dating world. Dating is hard for most people, so I would agree. Good looking and charismatic people have an easier time of it similar to the way they have an easier time getting jobs and being treated nicely at stores. People forget the charisma part - I've known more than one woman who was pretty but quiet and awkward so dating was not easy for them. It's still somewhat easier for the woman because she can be passive and let potential dates come to her. But if she's not pretty or not outgoing her success rate will be much less than a woman that has those things. Originally Posted by 49ersfan Originally Posted by redguard
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