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This document was submitted by our user and they confirm that they have the consent to share it. Assuming that you are writer or own the copyright of this document, report to us by using this DMCA report button. Home Login. Report DMCA. Alex Coulson — Street Dating Revealed 3. Yad — Natural Daygame Live Events 4. Paul Janka — Secrets to Meeting Women 6. Lance Mason — Daygame and the Art of Rapport 8. Mehow — Get The Girl! Manual — Nightlife Ed. Nightlife Edition 5. Mehow — 10 Second Sexual Attraction 8. Mystery — Revelation Venusian Arts Mystery — Revelations Venusian Arts 2. Love Systems — Magic Bullets 3. Love Systems — Routines Manual Vol. Ross Jeffries — Speed Seduction 3. Joseph Matthews — Art of Approaching 7.

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Simplified Anatomy for the Comic Book Artist. A new kind of pickup artist is creeping on your wall and your OKCupid profile. What was I reading? Did I live in New York? Did I go there often? All standard fare. But then, out of the blue, he said I looked really spontaneous. Like, the kind of person who would go skydiving or ski down a mountain strapped to a pair of naked ninja turtles. I brushed the comment, and the guy, off. But then it happened again. And again. The exact same line about spontaneity, all from different guys. Strauss's book focused on the "art" of real-life pickups. But thanks to the ubiquity of Facebook and Twitter, combined with the mainstreaming of online dating sites, there's now a new genre of online pickup artistry.Online pick-up artistry has taken the original aims of IRL pick-up — to develop general tactics and techniques for attracting and bedding women— one step further. One dehumanizing step further. But the message of all their websites is pretty consistent, even if the sites' creators claim otherwise: There are rules and techniques and data to use to have sex with anyone you want to. The pickup artist theory is that women wield all the power. The hot girls get all the messages. The hot girls call all the shots. If women supposedly have all the power in this one, limited realm, then there must be some way to wrest it back from them. Out of nowhere, he sent me a link to an old picture, and asked if it was me. It was. He replied:. Haha Ok I think we have to stop this interview now. Just kidding. But interesting photo. It triggers her to want to message you back to set things straight in her mind. Jozzar Kimba is a pick-up artist who works exclusively online. For him, the benefits of an online pickup are in its specificity. Do you want to specifically attract an Asian woman? There are keywords you can add to your profile that will make an Asian woman more likely to contact you, according to Kimba.

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I ask Derek if the list that appears on his site is accurate. He says yes, reluctantly. He told me he once scored 20 dates in one week from Facebook and online dating sites while he was researching and developing his pickup technique, though he seems coy, almost embarrassed, by his online pickup success. This both flips the table on the woman and brings sex into the equation. Women are often so afraid that men are only after them for sex, that to use this rudimentary reverse psychology can supposedly put them at ease. They now feel in control of the sexual dialogue. All of the online attraction experts I spoke with seemed like decent guys. Supposedly, men think they want an easy way to get easy sex from the internet, but what they really want is a girlfriend. Rather, it seems to claim that it provides men with the tools to dictate the terms of their relationships with women. Then you get to decide how you want her. Pick up artistry, online or off, claims it holds the key: the key to the sex you want to have with the girl you want have it with.

The funny thing about pickup techniques is that, despite how cheesy and contrived they may appear to be, they do seem to work. In my conversation with Maurice — the one where he negged me — I could understand the insidious logic at work. Even if the online pickup artists I spoke with were exaggerating their success rates, they did seem to have more sex and more dates than the "Average Frustrated Chump. If you can control your image and your interactions, then you can control your romantic outcomes. It's "science. This, in the pickup artist's world, is how men become men. Kelly Bourdet writes about science, tech, love and sex. Contact Kelly Bourdet at kelley yahoo. Got a confidential tip? Kelly Bourdet BuzzFeed Contributor. I first turned to the pickup artists after losing in love. Or, to be precise, winning—and then losing. And then one day we met. One of my friends knew one of her friends; they came over to talk; we were introduced. I was the older, wiser graduate student, she the impressed undergraduate—but not too impressed, because she was from New York City—and she later admitted that when she asked me out the next week she was nearly certain I would turn her down uncomfortably.

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We met for drinks at the bar where no one goes, walked back to my house, started drinking again, and eventually made it out to my back porch. The kiss was the giveaway. I told my friends the following day it was a good thing she was leaving town for most of the summer, so I could get out guilt-free after a few weeks. I came by foot to pick her up, walking down a street whose trees were finally becoming lush in the heat of May, and then up to a garden just as green. And there she was, in a white dress, only a few strands of hair falling to her neck. In that split second, I was lost. It would be difficult to narrate the coming weeks, because they were a descent by small degrees from the highest of highs to the lowest of lows. We began happy, or at least I did. We spent an hour once cataloguing with astounding detail each of those times we had seen each other on campus. I was handsome, she was beautiful; people told us we looked like each other. But little by little I began to lose control.I called her house too frequently, to the point of pestering her roommates. Eventually it became clear that she was indulging me to avoid confrontation before she left for the summer. Not yet entirely out of my mind, I had a sense for what was going on, but it took a while for me to start hating myself. That began, properly, on the night we said goodbye. The book remained high up on the New York Times Bestseller List for over a month, sold hundreds of thousands of copies, and spawned not only a follow-up by Strauss himself, but also countless imitations in print as well as a cable television show. The Game is the Great American Success Story for the testosterone-driven, club-going male; it is easy to understand its popularity. But the book has an unsettling and enchanting effect on the more old-fashioned among us as well, and in this the theme of manliness is front and center. And although Mystery is clearly indebted to the legends of seduction who preceded him—most prominent among them Ross Jeffries, the guru who applied the techniques of neurolinguistic programming to the hypnosis of women—his own method forms the basis of nearly every interaction in the book. Mystery is responsible for many innovations, to be sure, but the key to the method is, unquestionably, that the pickup artist ignore, tease, or even insult the targeted female, accustomed as she is to constant, beleaguering attention from men. That is, the message of the pickup artists is at its core an age-old one: women love men who are mean to them—or at least a little mean to them. If you believe that women want to be flattered, wooed and obeyed, we are told, guess again. Women want limits to be set, they want to be played with, they want manliness—and it is best to establish the dynamic right from the start. I only alienate the girls I want to fuck. So how does it work?

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It begins in a bar. The thought behind it is twofold: first, if a man looks for too long at a woman, she might begin to think he is creepy, or, possibly worse, a coward; and second, if a man looks for too long at a woman, he might indeed become a coward, he might lose his nerve. The pickup artist always smiles. Now, of course it makes sense that the current girlfriend should have pride of place. Is that really fair? In the meantime, of course, the pickup artist needs to watch his body language—or train himself into the proper body language beforehand. They seem to know everything that one could possibly desire to know: where to put their hands, where to put their feet, what to do with their weight. They know how to manipulate a woman out of her barstool so they can slide into the seated position the position of power. They know how to rock backwards slightly when delivering openers—again, so that their interlocutors fear they might leave at any moment. When the opportunity arises, the pickup artist finally acknowledges his target, whom he has either been ignoring or only addressing as part of her group. But it is hardly an acknowledgment: it is a mild insult, or a backhanded compliment, and always delivered in as casual a way as possible so that the intention to insult can never be detected. But the victory of the pickup artist can only be guaranteed by demonstrating value. In the abstract, this involves establishing that the pickup artist is different from other men, intriguing in some way, superior. Then she is asked: How big is it? What is it made of? What color is it? Then she pictures a ladder, a horse, flowers, a storm. Sure enough, the cube represents her ego, the ladder her friends, the horse her lover or her own sexuality , the flowers children, the storm her problems.

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Is the ladder leaning on the cube? Her friends depend on her. Is the horse bigger than the cube? She wants her lover to dominate her. And so on. That the details of the routine are purely arbitrary is not lost on the pickup artists—there exist bountiful variations, in which the terms are shifted around according to whim, the flowers representing one thing, the ladder another. That is value. But there is one more wanton and controversial play in the book that deserves mention: the neutralization of LMR—last-minute resistance. In the bedroom where there are no chairs , the pickup artist sits on the bed with the target, but nowhere near her how confusing. When the time comes for physical escalation, he makes sure to always take two steps forward and one back. But at some point he could hit a wall—this is LMR. The pickup artist is sorry, but when a woman tells him to stop, it kills the mood for him; he knows very well that no means no. Teased by something just out of her reach, the girl will eventually relent. In this as in all things the pickup artists are closers; they close the deal. They number-close, they k-close, they f-close. Number closing is getting a number from a girl; k-closing is short for kiss-closing; and f-closing, officially, is short for full-closing. The pickup juggernaut has been rolling on vigorously since the publication of The Game. Mystery finally came out with his VH1 television show, The Pickup Artist , and published his own book, The Mystery Method : success that would seem deserved, considering what he has done for the industry.